Things Fall Apart: When Strength Fails You

Where It Hit Me

I first read Things Fall Apart in high school—it was part of the required reading list for English literature. Coming back to it nearly 25 years later, the book struck me differently. I began with the ending this time, tracing back the choices each character made, the world Achebe created, and how the story’s emotional depth felt more potent now that I’ve lived a bit.

While my life hasn’t followed the same path as Okonkwo’s, some of the decisions I’ve faced—and how they unfolded—echo with the same weight. Achebe’s narrative doesn’t just tell a story; it helps you reflect on your own.

What the Book Is About

The novel follows Okonkwo, a proud man who dedicates his life to building strength, reputation, and control. His drive is rooted in a deep fear of failure and weakness, shaped by his father’s legacy. But despite his efforts, everything he builds unravels—largely due to forces beyond his control.

How that collapse unfolds, and what it reveals about identity, community, and change, is a powerful journey.

Why I’m Recommending It

If you grew up on the African continent—or were raised by African parents—you’ll likely recognize the world Okonkwo inhabits:

• The pressure to appear strong

• The silence around vulnerability

• The demand that children be seen, not heard

• The lonely burden placed on men to “figure things out”

These aren’t just literary themes; they’re realities many of us live. Achebe doesn’t offer easy answers, but he holds up a mirror.

Who It’s For

This book is for anyone who appreciates a well-told story. Achebe’s writing is tight, immersive, and emotionally sharp.

But more specifically, I think it speaks to:

• African men navigating personal transformation

• Anyone going through change they didn’t choose

• Readers wrestling with inherited ideas of manhood

• People reflecting on how tradition and identity evolve

Despite being set in a different era, the book still has something urgent to say—if you’re ready to listen.

Where to Get It*

I’ve listed a few options depending on where you are:

• Amazon (South Africa) – approx. ZAR 47.14

• Books First (Kenya) – approx. KES 1,495.00

• Jumia (Nigeria) – approx. ₦ 3,200

Check your local bookstore if you can—most will stock this classic.

What Do You Think?

• Have you read Things Fall Apart?

• What stayed with you?

• What did it evoke in you?